Husband, I have to move. The OW lives in the same town as I do and I know for me it's not good that I stay here. It's either to PA where H now is (he won't be able to see the OW for a year, just talk on the phone) or to KY where I have family. I'm just really torn. If I go to PA and it doesn't work out in the year then I'm stuck there for another year until D graduates and there is the chance he'll move her and her 2 kids up there and I'll be in the same position I'm in now except they'll be living together then. I'm torn and confused. If he's pretty much saying that he loves her and doesn't plan on putting any effort into trying to save the M is it really possible for me to make that big a difference? At times a year seems really long but at other times it seems really short. I have to admit I'm scared and no matter which way I lean I'm terrified I'm making the wrong decision.
