In the journey of the MLCer could it be possible it is meant for us and not them? Maybe a marriage needs to end for the correct outcome to be realized?
Are'nt all of our actions, as humans, based on selfishness? We act and react the only way we can based on our experiences. Knowing how we "may" feel given any circumstance drives actions. Given the same circumstances more than once with a different decision being made is based on how "we" react to perceived outcome, not anyone else.
To stand or not is what we determine for us individually. In the road of life, that is unique to everyone, our stories will be written by what we can't know. So we make the best of it with such limited abilities.
Does anyone really think or know what piece of the puzzle they are? Some might be a corner and some of us are just that pale blue sky. But the picture is never complete without all the pieces.
Success stories are great! I might add the failures, (in our eyes only), may be pretty great too! We just need to accept that we're not painting the picture.
I applaud everyone who strives to become better.
IMHO cire
Me 48 X's vary S 27 S 18 Back with high school sweety after 30 years..