And no, I don't measure the quality of someone by whether or not they file for divorce.
I don't recall reading about the children in your old threads, though. That's an awesome thing you are doing.
Just so you know, my post to you was the second time in 2 days that I have flipped my lid on this board over what I perceived to be "misleading" posts. It has been with concern for new people that may be reading. I don't know where that's coming from but I seem to be acutely aware of what our posts might be conveying to SOMEONE out there... So anyway, I apologize for reading more into your post than you meant to say. Thanks for your support of my sitch, which for the moment is in a deep freeze. I'm breaking out the bikini again tomorrow in an effort to "kick it up a notch" .
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