guys i am ready to ring my h's neck. he is wanting to see the kids and i said fine but the ow is not to be around them. he said that in time they will see why he left me for her and she is not a fly by night person. i am ready to scream. i said i don't care but i don't think to highly when she is leaving her h and pursuing a r with a married man with children. i do not want her around the kids until we are d. am i wrong? i know that last year if someone we knew was doing this he would say they are wrong but now that he is doing this it is like its fine. my bil called me today and told me that my h is calling family members trying to convince them that what he is doing is not wrong and that he has the right to be happy. what in the world is going on?
me-30 h-38 m-11 yrs s-6 s-7 ss-13 h left-april 21,2007 found out of ea april 1, 2007