Certainly, Michelle's ideas, or anyone else's ideas can be misconstrued and used unhelpfully. Certainly that happens in this forum and in other forums on these boards. There is good advice and bad advice to be found in any discussion group, real or virtual.
My point is the same it has been.
The advantage Choc has is that his W is still open to the possibility of reconcilliation and willing to see an MC. Choc's activities are likely to cause his W to shut down. More consistent DBing would preserve his advantage, thus my belief that Choc would be helped by reading DR and by posting in another forum in which his sitch is closer to that of fellow posters.
