And don't let her think I could or would approve of anything untoward. Part of me thinks it would be sexy, but it would also be reckless, and I don't approve of her taking stupid risks like that with our health and our family. Convey that to her wholeheartedly. Start on that at the next opportunity.
I may have missed something, but are you saying that you have told her previously that you would like to see her with other men?
MrsNOP -
No, I have never said or implied anything like that. I did say "jealousy makes me horny", and I've said things like "come her, and I'll make you forget all about whats-his-name". The fantasy I speak of has never been mentioned or hinted at to anyone in real life. She may have some suspicion of it, though, simply because she reads me so well.
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
