Matilda and Husband, Thanks for your comments, advice, and support.
I like what H advises regarding having my W leave on her cruise with fond memories of me. It's important that we remain on good terms, and that our time together be positive.
Am I afraid? I think I fear the possibility of going thru a major upheaval. This in-house separation is difficult, but at least the rest of my life is stable. A D would involve possibly having to leave my home.
There is a dance tonight with a live band, at an old theater. I'm a little nervous since it's not my usual venue, but I told my W I was going. I think she's looking forward to me being there. She told me that I'm ready to dance with the best ladies our community has to offer! I need to keep branching-out.
She seems to be appreciating me more as a practice partner. I listen and utilize feedback she offers. I'm able to "iron out wrinkles, thanks to her." Her other dance partner does not accept her feedback, and therefore holds onto some bad habits. He wants to be the teacher, and she the student. She has outgrown that role, and wants a more collaborative relationship. She is frustrated with him and plans on cutting down on their practice time.
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CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
