This sich kind of reminds me of my FIL. He cheated on my MIL and left her for another woman and in some way he was able to rationalize it partially on the fact that the OW had been physically abused by her X. So it was kind of like the rescue of a more needy bunny justified the abandonment of the bunny at home who was less needy. I can't stand that kind of moral rationalization. Kind of guy who acts like an *sshole for years and then builds a stone wall for his church to get into heaven. Doing penance and purchasing dispensation is bullsh*t in my book. Throw them right in the cr*pper along with unconditional love for anyone you didn't house in your womb.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
