Fran the good female dancer goes with the flow but adds her own special something. That sounds very nice. BB and I had that at one time. Her "flow" is a different direction now or maybe I don't know where the flow is going.
adds her own special something.. If it isn't her idea/flow, she won't add anything for the last many years.
One of the things the dance teacher showed us was how the man gives the woman space to do her stuff and show off her moves. I guess I am poor with giving her space. Seems when I do something, we are each headed in a different direction, or BB doesn’t want to keep up..
Man builds house, woman decorates it. Yes.
Man drags home beast, woman cooks it into tasty meal No. You brought it home, so cook it. And don't store it in Her refrigerator too long.
The man says what’s happening and makes it happen - the woman embellishes it and makes it into something nice. Sorry buddy, you are on your own.
Men are failing in their role if they don't make things happen, women are failing if they don't make the most of what is happening or try to make something different happen. I agree 100%
(women) They take what the men have done and make it usable, nice, congenial. Some women pick apart what the man has done.
Fran I wish it was the way you described. Sometimes it is. Sometimes it isn't for me.
Sorry, BB and I had a bad night and morning. No D word but she is asking why I live with her, as in, if she is so bad a person, why do I stay with her.
