breton, Thanks so much for taking time out to give me some great advice- I amtrying to follow that. I know in my heart what worked to bring him home last time. my problem is that I am 99.9% sure that I don't want him back this time- He would have to do some major attitude overhaul and some counseling which he refuses. I do tell him the kids need him _ I guess that is guilt? I shouldn't do that.
So I should just not say anything about the kids at all- what if he calls late on a Sunday to get them should I let him? I guess right now I need to take away any reason for him to be angry at me so I should just let him get the kids at anytime- my words notyours- Take away anything he can fight with me about.
Still no contact with him today
lisa
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
