Guys, I NEVER said Divorce WAS the end, I clearly said in my post that it CAN work out! LOL I merely said that the odds were greatly AGAINST it. As you pointed out in your post, the majority of 1st marriages end in divorce and the number is significantly higher in 2nd, 3rd, and so forth marriages. There are marriages that get restored, people can and do get back together, the chances of which are low however. That is all that I was trying to point out! If you want to stand, FANTASTIC! Good luck and God's speed to you!! Be prepared however for it to not work out, that is all I was trying to point out! Again, I am not being negative, just realistic. I have too many statistics and data that back up what I am saying.