Lis, you like I are entitled to your opinion and I respect your views. However, I do think you selectivly read my post. I wasn;t trying to be negative only realistic. I am sorry to say that most of the time, people who go through this do end up Divorced, statistics show there is a greater than 50% divorce rate in the U.S., so under the BEST conditions, divorce is statistically the odds on favorite. I also stated in my post that SOMETIMES it DOES work out! I wasn't putting down anyone by my posting, I admire all that stand or are standing, I clearly pointed out that I CHOOSE to do what I did, I take full responsibility for ending my Marriage, I didn't wish to continue standing and taking. I do agree with what you said about the LBS not wanting to work it out after they come out of it, said it quite clearly in my post! I feel I had a REALISTIC viewpoint of the MLC sitch, not negative. Sorry if you feel otherwise!
