I don;t know too many people on the board who have gone through an MLC and tried to regain their spouse AMYC is the only one I know of, and she has worked very hard to regain her marriage, so far with little success.
Guess you didn't read the making out post.
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What kind of a person who has a reasonable amount of intellegence wouldn't know? They do not care! They don't care about you, kids, nobody or nothing!
I do not agree with this statement at all.
I have come to a few conclusions my self. When a LBS "throws in the towel" they come back here and start a thread of "negativity" I find that this negativity comes from bitterness.
In YOUR eyes, WE the LBS, that has not thrown in the towel, looks like we are delusional.
I am sorry , that you have gotten a divorce. It seems like something you did, just b/c YOU didn't want to suffer anymore. I totally understand that.
Snodderly is also D'd. She comes here and gives us wonderful very infomrative advice, and information, that sounds nothing like what you have posted.
I know people on the Surving the big D forum come here and look at us with a big (sigh) and say. I remember when i was like they were. And then they sigh again.
I want to thank you for giving us your point of view. Since it is only your Point of View, I do find many parts of it not be fact at all.
My grandmother was left by her H. (my grandad) he left her for a younger women. H left my grandmother we 11 kids.
He left her with a farm in Cuba, and they did not even have a floor.
Instead of being bitter, and , "throwing in the towel" she prayed. She connected with God, in a way, that marvels me to this day. She thanked God for giving her this trial, and then she got to work, doing work for God, her kids, raising animals, milking cows the works.
Not one word from my grandpa, he was a drop out I think they are called.
She would pray to God to make her the type of wife she should be, even if my grandpa was not coming back.
She prayed for God and the Holy Spirit to protect my grandpa while he was away, and soften his heart.
She prayed that the OW repent for her sins before it was to late.
4 years and 3 weeks later, my grandfather suddenly came home.
They were together for another 30 years until his death. He was on his death bed, and he would not die, until my grandmother came in, and whispered in his here, that she would be ok.
he took one deep breath and he died.
So for as you saying ,
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We have to be realistic in the sense that there is an overwhelming chance that our marriages are over for good. I am basing this statement on what I see posted here.
I think that is not a fact.
I think the FACT is that these people do come back, I think there is so much divorce, b/c many LBS have "thrown in the towel"
God bless you braveheart.
“Pray as though everything depended on God. Work as though everything depended on you.”
