When I did that to BB, I get the feeling she thinks am over sexed. She tells me to take it easy and not pull on her clothing. Do you see why some guys hold back? Not wanting to be called or labeled all hands and grabby even when we think we are taking it slow.
Well, I'm probably understating or not giving full recognition to my own sexual signaling when I describe the encounter. It's not like I was sitting there like a lump waiting to be disrobed. But still it is the case that I know I'm not signaling full sexual arousal at the beginning of many/most encounters with HDM for the simple reason that I'm not fully sexually aroused at the beginning of many/most encounters with HDM. All I have to do is signal willingness to be sexually aroused. OTOH, I think Corri did a good job of describing the sich where her BF was more passively signaling "willingness to be sexually aroused" to her which is, IMO, normal HDM behavior too. However, even in that sich, it's usually not the case that a woman would have to signal that she was in full-out heat in order to turn the guy on, she would just have to act sexy or be a bit assertive. I am well aware that most men would be VERY turned on by a woman doing something like MBing herself into a state of arousal in front of him and I have less than zero objection to doing things like that but IMO it's weird to think that it would be necessary. If human males really had to wait around for human females to signal heat in order to behave or react sexually there would be a lot less people on the planet. However, it is also true that if you do signal it just a teeny-tiny bit, well, let's just say that stuff will happen.
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