HI HB - I am so sorry that this is becoming more and more complicated for you. I talked to a DB coach - Joann - and it was extremely helpful. She just helped me focus in on what I needed to do more of/less of and what to expect as "normal" behavior from my H. I really would highly recommend it expecially if you feel like you are at a place where you need to tweak your DB'ing but aren't sure exactly what to do. Well worth the $$$.
Again.. so sorry for the difficult times.. Take care of yourself this weekend..
