Here is what really gets me about this. He KNEW HE WOULD GET CAUGHT, and he did it anyway. Evidently he was counting on being able to convince Heywyre that he wouldn't do it again, again.
That is an almost unimaginable level of disrespect. I see little difference in his actions and those of an abuser.
I see none of this as a weak moment, rather a fully contrived crime.
I'm sorry Heyweyre Those were strong words from Nop but I tend to agree with them. The worst part of the whole thing is you cannot win in this situation. If you hold to your boundary and end the M because he has broken your trust Yet Again, then you may feel like you are giving up a huge part of your life that I know you cherish. BUT, if you allow the M to continue after what you have just learned, he ultimately loses more respect for YOU. I am no expert of A's but I see no reason why your H would NOT try and get away with it again. He knows you will take the "abuse." This reminds me somewhat of Heather's situation as well. If you don't maintain your own self-respect, no one else will either. Don't you deserve better than this??
