I feel that you are being uneccesarily harsh to Choc. I don't know what your situation is, perhaps you have had to deal with DB/WAS/SSM/EA/PA in the past. But sometimes it is not easy to "do the right thing" (whatever that truly may be) while in the middle of the situation. Emotions run high, especially for emotional people like me and Choc, and berating someone for being emotional is not helpful. Can you see how your aggressive MO is contrary to your own advice to him on how he should deal with his W? You have valid points, but they are lost in the midst of words like "nightmare" and basically implying that he will be responsible for his D if he doesn't read DR/DB.
JMHO of course Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
