I have a real question. During anyone's interaction here on the board... Has there ever been a situation where the WAS, was not involved with someone else? I can definately prove a EA, I feel like I wouldnt want her back if I could prove she was Physical with someone else. My wife is in denial and as silly as it sounds, I feel like until I can prove she is physical, I have to keep DBing. It really is important to me... I just dont think there is any excuse or reason that is strong enough to justify her f**cking someone else.