(sorry - I don't know how to change to just a title!)
She dropped the bomb last - Sat - 'it's over - that's it - permanent separation!' Because I had been through this before I suspected someone else and was unfortunately right - I've found emails between them - detailing pretty much EVERYTHING. Unfortunately I confronted her - and EVENTUALLY she admitted to it. So from saying she wants to live by herself and work out her probs - she actually has been having an EA/PA with OM. We're still living in the same house / same bed - she's still being lovey dovey but I'm starting to detach - and now she's starting to react. I'm moving out at the end of the week - and trying to get on with my life - although it's killing me on the inside - but last night was the first - 'I'm going out' - and I asked no questions - just told her 'to have a great time' - and boy did it hurt me!! Any advice to protect my heart much appreciated! Evan
