Choc is doing a lot right. He did NOT send the letter. He is treating his wife with respect and kindness. He is not being grabby/needy or desperate.
He DOES have weak moments like anyone else in similar situations.
I am curious as to what you think he will get from other areas of the bulletin board.
Do you think that we are misleading him or sending him the wrong signals?
We have encouraged him in many "DB Approved" methods. We have NOT encouraged him to be a doormat, or to just accept his wife's inappropriate behavior as a "matter of course". Is that what you disagree with?
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
