". I am in agreement with others that you might want to switch gears from being SSM to an active DBer. "
Yes, well, that would be the best bet, regardless of how he handles dealing with the EA. But, it is not to be, not yet. Perhaps when W is totally emotionally D and the great hope you and I BOTH see for Choc is past, he will pick up the book.
Choc, the draft email you wrote is a nightmare, again, incredibly self-destructive.
