You are right about the actions. When actions match words, then you are at least approaching truth.
When her actions do not match her words, then, regardless of its cause - confusion, whatever, the result is a lie.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.