but it only took HD guy about 2 seconds to deal with that level of difficulty and I should emphasize that it wasn't because of any higher level of sexual prowess, it was because he was the "little engine that could" because he had a tank full of testosterone and/or a proactive attitude or some combination of the two.

When I did that to BB, I get the feeling she thinks am over sexed. She tells me to take it easy and not pull on her clothing. Do you see why some guys hold back? Not wanting to be called or labeled all hands and grabby even when we think we are taking it slow.

It is good to read some women have monkey or bunny or what ever you call it, at the wheel. I understand the cow role. Monkey and bunny overlap to me.

Lou