GEL AT LEAST HE WAS FINALLY HONEST WITH YOU Maybe he was. Maybe it was 99% of the truth. Maybe it was a lower percent, of the truth.
do you still need to see that bill or I would still want to see the bill. Seeing the bill might send the message home to think before he does some things. Free passes usually reinforce poor behaviors to continue.
There are pre-paid phone cards, pre-paid cell phones, one can use to make calls. No way of tracking those. I am not saying Mr. HW has any of those. Just saying keep an eye open for alternatives to his personal cell phone. It's HW's choice what she does.
I see no reason why he doesn't already have a pay-as-you-go phone to use, to contact her in the future. SG, we were thinking the same thing. I didn't see your post when I wrote my reply.
While we are at it I wouldn't rule out Mr. HW using the computer at work or some place other than home.
I like the ST appointment. Maybe the ST can bring out the why and how to prevent further wanderings.
No contact or move out for Mr. HW is my vote if HW wants the work on the M.
Some people don't learn to control them self till the non-cheating spouse ends the current style of the R and the cheater is forced out of the M nest.
GEL, you know more about this subject so I will trust you will be working with HW and offer better solutions than the opinions I have right now.
