Guys, I think it was NOP and Honeypott who said that my wife's WORDS were good, but not to put too much weight in them.
Her ACTIONS are that she's totally withdrawn emotionally from me, totally shut down, and seemingly not interested one whit in working on our marriage.
She continues to have contact with OM, and it seems to be accelerating. No proof of PA yet, but she's hiding things.
My sister told me today that "God will break you, before He'll fix you."
I'm feeling pretty broken tonite. I leave for Chicago tomorrow for four days, and I'm not at all sure that my wife will be faithful to me while I'm gone, and I have a gnawing feeling that she's going to ask for a separation when I get back.
