He told me there was no OW, and I believed him for a while. But my C said that men don't leave their wives and family life to "find themselves." They usually leave because of someone else. My C said that someone, whether a classmate or a friend, gave my H enough confidence to get up and walk.
This is very true. My X gave me the same story but I found out different. Not to discount my responsibility but I can echo this poster.
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You won't heal overnight. It's a slow process, but you can feel better about yourself but you have to work at it. I still have my moments of "What if's" and "If only I would have." I'm not saying there isn't hope for your marriage. Everyone's situation is different. I'm just sharing my story with you and know that you are not alone. This BB has helped me immensely. Hang in there, and hang with us. We all know what you're going through.
I considered on replying to this tread but this poster could not have said it better. You are not alone even when you are alone.
"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin
