Lost I’m so sorry if I offended you. My heart (what’s left) does go out to you. I was not saying my sitch is worst than yours. I was just pointing out how everyone’s is different. I can’t imagine what it would be like to love some one who’s out ward appearance look like they hates me. I do feel things are slooooooly working out. Part of my problem is My Heart was hurt just as bad as yours when you found out. I want to be mad at her but I can’t. Yes you live that pain every day because you H are with the OW. My sitch not as bad as your sitch but I am left in limbo. You know where your H is. I have to keep flip flopping is she or isn’t she.
Again I feel so sorry if I caused you any more hurt. We all have had our life time’s worth of hurt
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know