LFL wrote:"It would eventually blow up in your face. She would resent you for it. Feel like you didn't really love her. (My opinion of course but I'm probably not too far off). Women do not want a man that wants to pass her around so that you can "get off." "

Exactly. In fact, it will blow out any sense of security your wife gets from you, leaving her "dangling". After that, you can start the stop watch on a countdown toward an affair, if not divorce, and the really ugly thing is that you will be virtually powerless to stop it once it starts. I was just reading about a couple that recently did it. As a result, she has had repeated affairs, and they both want to save their marriage, but it is very unlikely that will happen.

Southern Girl and LFL are telling you like it is.

An old player rule. Never party with someone you care about losing.

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.