Why would changing her number be the death-knell? She's trying to establish herself and her own life and that's to be expected. Don't read to much into it because she'd be doing this either way, D or not. I would also suspect she has a new number if the account was in your name. I would think she'd have a hard time transferring the number if it wasn't in her name. So don't think too much around that either.
She didn't have to change the number, it was set-up so she could just move it to her own account. Feel like if she changes the number, she no longer wants ANY possibility of contact (even though we're on forced darkness anyway).
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Bottom line here is you need to make sure you are doing things for you. IOW you need to be GALing. When you GAL it can sometimes shock the WAS into the reality that you might move on without them. My wife is definitely processing in that way. Every time I take something of mine out of the house she reacts. She even told me the other night I don't need to be in a hurry to get my stuff.
She was shocked last night when she saw me. I saw it in her eyes for just a split second. I also stayed so calm and confident the whole time, I know she recognized that.
My wife didn't even try to schedule a time to come pick up the stuff, don't you think she would have if she wanted me all the way out??? I don't know, like I said earlier, she'll probably get her lawyer to do that.
I'm in good shape myself, just finally getting on the roller-coaster has been a definite shock to the system today. Can't wait to go get my S for the holiday.
I'm almost tempted to have my mom invite W over for the holiday cook-out, but I know that's pursuing and that's not attractive nor healthy. Still want to do it.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
