So I shouldn't be freaking out too much that she moved her cellphone? I mean I made it possible for her to do it, and I have to change my carrier soon anyway, so it's no big deal and I shouldn't have been surprised. And by her attitude most of last night, I shouldn't be surprised now, I'm sure she did it yesterday. Wish I could find out if she changed her number. I think that would be the death-knell of the M.
Why would changing her number be the death-knell? She's trying to establish herself and her own life and that's to be expected. Don't read to much into it because she'd be doing this either way, D or not. I would also suspect she has a new number if the account was in your name. I would think she'd have a hard time transferring the number if it wasn't in her name. So don't think too much around that either.
Bottom line here is you need to make sure you are doing things for you. IOW you need to be GALing. When you GAL it can sometimes shock the WAS into the reality that you might move on without them. My wife is definitely processing in that way. Every time I take something of mine out of the house she reacts. She even told me the other night I don't need to be in a hurry to get my stuff.
Last edited by catfan; 05/25/0708:30 PM.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
