My wife is falling in love with OM - help.

[Yoyowife]

I know what you mean about the split. My H and I own a business. When he first left he gave me a list of how we should split assets. He said I could have house and my car, all of our checking and half of the savings. He wants all of business, his truck, both of our girls' cars, camper, boat, and jet skis, and half of savings. I told him that I did not think that was fair that everything should be split down the middle even if it meant we had to sell everything. He got mad and said I would ruin him financially if I took half the business and he couldn't continue to support the girls in the fashion they were accustomed to. He said I would ruin the girls' lives, wow, who was the one who decided that it was okay to leave the family. I told him I would gladly give up everyting to just have my family back, it wasn't about the money. To add salt to the wound his OW is his secretary. I'm sorry why would I want her having everything we have worked for. I actually don't work in the business but I am half owner.