Nops, I unerstood Gels comment about a more equitable participation style. My comment was that she was not like this the first 6 months so I really need to see what the future has in store for me.
Gel, I flat out told her a few weeks ago "That if I ever have to deal with this Intimacy thing again, then it is OVER!." She did not comment. She knew I had enough.
She made the comment the other day that I have all the control in this relationship right now. I thouth the comment was a little scary about her mind set and I have wondered if control is all she is after.
