Yes, they said once the affair is out in the open there is a much better chance to work things out. There was an example about a woman running into an old flame and reigniting feelings for him. She was honest and told her H. She said instead of keeping these feelings to herself and thinking about him she was able to ward off the relationship going any further. Your situation just reminded me of that. I see that as a positive. Just keep doing the things you are do to support her and show her you love her.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
