AN wrote:"Also, her non-participation issue was something that has recently developed (maybe 8 months or so). The first 6 months she was a wild thing and very active, assertive, aggressive, willing, playfull, etc... "

Until she got what she wanted, then she reverted. Don't you wonder if it wasn't the same in other relationships?

What GEL alluded to in the laying there/swinging connection is that she appears to be more accustomed to being pleased as opposed to a more equitable participation style.

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.