I don't think what you told H about S2 was bad. Your H said to keep him informed. Don't you just wish you could know what your H is thinking? He had to have known that separating would be devasting to all of you. You're doing the right thing not placing the blame on him, even though you're thinking it :-). Even though I was also at fault, I blame my H for turning my life upside down. I wanted to work on the marriage...he's the one who spoke the "D" word first.
It must be very difficult dealing with the situation when you have kids. It's bad enough dealing with the hurt and pain on your own, but knowing it is also affecting your children. We don't have any...just 4-legged furry ones...ha!
Hang in there...and keep posting.
All my best, alamogirl
Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb) H - 43 married - 16 Jul 94 no children 1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06 2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06 H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06 Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07
