my family has told my dadto back off and he has agreed that we need to work out our own problems. as far as my h being mad at me he doesn't have a reasonto really. he was the one that moved out and in with the ow. i told him that i would move the party to a park and he could be there. he said no that he wont be there. the only person he is hurting is our son, not me. why cant he see that. we both want him for that day and this is the only compromise i can come up with.(i dont trust him to take our kids in the morning bc he would be the type to have an excuse to miss the party just to tee me off) he is still mad over the no tresspass notice but that was not my fault and i caant get him to understand that. but he doesn't care. i think that it is easier for him to be mad at me.


me-30
h-38
m-11 yrs
s-6
s-7
ss-13
h left-april 21,2007
found out of ea april 1, 2007