Need Veteran Piecer's Advice - desperately!!!

[Heartbroken]

Thanks OC,

We did tell them together - I explained why I was not going on the trip today and H explained about the apt sitch. They had a tough time but sucked it up - they do not like to show H their true feelings due to fear of him never coming back. I have been busy at work today - so no sadness. Tonight will be a diff story. My C said to stop over analyzing and step back from all this DB'ing (though she belives in it). She feels that I have done all that I can and he holds all the cards and the decision is up to him - irregardless of what I do. She said the no talking to each other is his assignment from his C and I should not be police'ing myself on this. If I talk about something he's not ready to he is to tell me - he needs to set the boundaries.

I left for work b4 they left this AM for WI and I almost lost it in front of the kids - had to quickly leave and just barely said goodbye to H while pulling out. It may be a long weekend!