Look, I am not saying that it was OK for him if he did speak to OW last month. I'm saying, that things are moving in the right direction for you RIGHT NOW. You recognize it yourself, the tides have turned for you. This whole cell phone bill seems like a time bomb to me, a diversion or distraction from your destiny. I'm in favor of walking around this one. Choose a different battle this time. Live and let live.
The only reason things are moving in the right direction is because she's finally started to respect herself. You may think "parental" is a turn-off, but "doormat" is an even greater one, and a great indicator of future bad behaviour. He promised. End of story.
This is "imo", of course. We will support Heywyre no matter what she decides.
