Someone pointed out a different perspective to me once. What if your W is truly miserable right now? What if, in fact, you are feeling way better and are happier than she could even pretend to be right now because of the destruction she has caused to your family. Maybe, in fact, you should feel sorry for her.
And, you are right. You ARE taking a chance. But, what happens if you don't? Then, you'll never know. It's hard to get your heart to understand what your head logically is saying, though isn't it?
wow.. you have three tubs of hosta to plant? I don't blame her for not wanting to help!
