I want to encourage you just to file the letter away for another day.
It will appear as needy because it contains only words of things that need to be done, and of promises to be fulfilled.
Go and DO some of the things in the letter. Actions. Demonstrate changes without pointing them out. She will notice.
She has heard empty promises/wishes/intentions before. Maybe they weren't in a letter, but while sitting on the couch or riding in the car.
Prove it to her before you say it to her.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
