Unfortunately my H does not know who his biological father is and probably never will. However, I do believe he has got past the point of thinking I might be his sister (which I think might have just been another excuse to not have sex - but might have also been tied in with his M/W complex feeling)
Wow. He actually claimed he was reluctant to have sex with you because your dad was in his native country when he was conceived and you therefore might be his sister? That has to qualify as the flimsiest excuse ever posted on this entire board for not having sex!
Unless y'all really look alike or something.
In my case, the only concerns I would have if it turned out to be true would be the prospect of getting caught and the prospect of having a child with birth defects (our existing children are okay as far as we can tell). The thought of the act itself under those circumstances is actually kind of a turn-on.
Did I mention I was weird?
Originally Posted By: Heywyre
The odds of us having the same father are rather remote, to say the least, although I guess stranger things have happened. But it is highly unlikely
Yeah, it's unlikely in my case, too, although I still think it's kind of weird that she wanted me so much when no one else wanted me at all. My behavior at the time certainly doesn't explain it. Not that I'm complaining, of course!
And she can "hear me thinking" to a sometimes unnerving degree.
Oh yeah, and I love creating drama in my own head, as you may have noticed.
Last edited by Crazy Eddie; 05/25/0704:35 PM.
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
