I see your point. I think I AM insane for trying to save this M. A few know the rest of my sitch......but what I really want is a better outcome for all of us.

I want to stay in this marriage for love, but there is more to it that that, correct? I also want stability, and honesty (not happening now - on both sides)

I don't like painting anyone the "bad" person, and I see it is easy to do to our spouses, since we live and tolerate them every day. I just want to be sure that I am not making a bad choice, but a healthy one.

~Sol

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Single Dad, and luvin it!
~ Happiness is a state of mind ~