Hounding probably wasn't the best word to use as I have never really "hounded" anyone about anything.
However, this is not over with. Like you said GEL, it was a boundary we agreed on. I have told him how important it is to me to be able to trust and that he has the "tools" necessary for me to do that, one of them being the information on that cell bill.
I am hoping I don't have to say another word to him and that he just provides it to me today, without asking/reminding again. But, if it is not forthcoming, I will say something along the lines you mentioned. Sometimes I would just like to slap him along side the head and say "don't you friggin get how important this is to me to move forward?"
However, on another note, he just called me and said "I'm just starting to realize how much I really love you".
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)