I gave my wife a few simple requests to improve our marraige or we end it.
She will go to therapy with me, and we will both take anger management classes.
She will not meddle with OM and her sister (more going on here)...
She will severe all contact with OM.
If she can't do these simple marriage-altering things, then we are going nowhere in our marriage....
I told her what needs to happen for this marriage to change. I am continuing to improve myself, not dwell on the past "symptoms" or on my wife, but on what needs to be done.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
