I don't want this marriage at all - mainly how it is - it's been the same way for 10 years, only it took my W to point out to me she wasn't happy, and she will not go to therapy.
There are issues I just cannot resolve on my own with her. She needs to be on medication for her anger and depression. I have been asked if she is bipolar - will never know unless she goes to therapy!
Bottom line - I am trying to change and I will be happy on my own and just make the best of everything. If my w doesn't want to change and give 150% to this M (which I see her just controlling it) then I will leave. I can't live this way....she knows that now. And I will not be her security blanket.
She will also use me for sex, it's on her terms.....when she wants it - never when I want it now - she has made that PERFECTLY CLEAR. And today she helped me pay a bill that had her name on it as well as mine - that's the only reason she paid it - to protect "her credit" - what she told me!!!!! She is looking out for herself - and she has no more room for love in her life for me. THAT is also clear. There is a BIG reason she will not go to therapy.....she wants things to remain the same and she doesn't want to see that she too has issues.
Last edited by sol1696; 05/25/0701:11 PM.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
