lost I’m no expert otherwise I would not be here. Reading you sitch it seems he goes though your dad when he has something to say to you. Maybe you should talk to you dad. Thank him for every thing he has done and his support but that the problems you and your H are having needs to be worked out by you two. (You dad is having the same husband syndrome of wanting to fix things. Like most husbands here we think we can fix our W’s problems but we can’t they need to fix themselves need just need to give them support) Have your dad tell him that he supports both of you but if your H needs to talk to you about the kids he should be calling you. I don’t know if this will work... Like I said I am not any expert. When you do talk to your husband you might want to tell him you are sorry for calling the police. (Don’t overly apologize because you did nothing wrong you are just sorry it came to that). But tell him you left me no choice. And then let it go. Our S are adults even though they don’t act like it. They know what they did. So we don’t need to keep repeating it. We don’t need to tell them over and over how much they hurt us. They know. They may not show it but they know. My W even though she acts tuff like it does not bother her what she did. For the first couple of weeks she cold not look at me strait in the eyes.
I hope this helps but remember. If I knew more about being married and relationships I would not be here.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
