I think what you are feeling is normal (at least from what I have read and experienced). I feel the same with my H. Jealous about him wanting to be with the kids and not me. It is heart breaking to me.

As far as the house I undertand. My house is on the market and I do not want to move from it. I feel that he has taken it away from me. I can not stay here on my own with the kids because it is to much for me to handle on my own. So now I have to change for him. I also have to deal with the kids not wanting to sell it. When He hears them crying (on the phone) he does not even say anything about it. I know that I will get through this and give these kids a nice home. On the other hand there are to many memories of him here. So maybe starting over in a new house is for the best.

Just believe in what you are doing and continue on.


Bomb 3/31/2007
Moved out 04/22/2007
Moved back in 06/11/2007
Wants to stay and try 09/04/2007