Your welcome C_M. Thanks again, I do appreacite your "Heavenly Viewpoint" and I think your H is really blessed to have you as a God Fearing wife = awesome
I don't really remember saying that, but maybe I did. I say a lot of things and don't remember! I think I have premature althiemers. I even forgot how to spell. I'm sure it was, but one of these days I'll find your post - I think it was back in my thread 8 though
I did just check in on you today. Really kind of you once again, thanks!
Ya, it's definitely taken me for a loop. Was kinda shocked in went THAT far in the other direction. Well, I was thinking 1 o 2 of her past interactions with my friend & his mom now make sense & MAYBE she was telling the truuth abour really wanting to hasten up this divorce
But totally not all lost. Yes, I wonder how she will be affected by a court appearance on Tuesday? I'm putting up a strong show with this as I have kinda catered to her "needs" throught most of this process ----> you know, by agreeing to pay 1/2 of her credit card, the furniture story, forwarding her mail, etc???
I think she formost needs prayer. Satan is trying to trick her. I see this also & she even said to my friend that divorce is not from the devil but that I (me) was the cause of this to happen!
Just continue to keep God first, keep becoming more like Christ, taking care of yourself, becoming a better person, Luckily, I had great parents in this regard & my Dad gave his last few "dying years" to our Messiah and did not falter once even though he was so sick. I did lost my faith after my sister died though, but since meeting my wife I've always tried to be a relatively good person. I see now though in how many spiritual areas I was lacking and am making amends for that now
and a better person for others, this too
and she will see. I have tried to treat my wife with kindness during every (even though they've been "few") interactions we've had & also I've managed to "bite" my tongue where otherwose I might have retaliated
It is just going to take longer than we thought. this is precisely why I have not agreed to any settlement and as a result we could only be looking at a court hearing for a final settlement in 18 months time????
The longer it takes, IMHO, the more "real" it is. I pray you're correct - thank you once again & have an awsome Messiah_Filled_Day
