Being Me and Upside Down, Thank you for dropping by. I was in Infidelity for most of my time when I was on the boards before so maybe that is why you haven't come across me before. You are both right about the WAS having to be transparent that is exactly how I feel and why I am sticking to my guns on the mobile phone deal. I feel if he cannot leave his phone around or doesn't want me to look at it then he MUST have something to hide. In the past when I snooped I often would find people had been contacting him and they were saying things that friends just dont say. Whilst I have not snooped for a long time now even on the rare times I have had the opportunity I do feel he needs to prove he is not hiding anything and that is a way of him building my trust. I know I have to let some things go but I will not bow down on this one. I know it sounds shallow but am I wrong in saying unless he can do that he cannot move back in??? I mean that is my major issue and if he can't understand that then is there really a point b/c the openess & honesty wouldn't be there from the start would it. Am I looking at that incorrectly.....I would really like peoples opinion on this......
