Nikki, I think the "blow up" can be a good thing. As far as not "letting" him go out, not the case at all. He made the decision not to go. You are doing a great job letting things slide off your back and taking issue with the real things. Keep it up. btw, I am excited to get the new horse camping. I am hoping she is the perfect lady for beginners like I have pegged. She listens to voice commands, so I can give assistance to others who are mounted on her. Wanna ride?:)